The Ultimate BOUDOIR Q & A with Hello Boudoir

Let’s be honest—prepping for a boudoir session can come with a lot of questions. Some feel too silly to ask (they’re not), others are just hiding behind nervous laughter. Well, good news: we’ve heard them all, ALL THE QUESTIONS and nothing phases us. So let’s spill the glittery, lace-lined tea.

👠 “Do I have to wear shoes?”

Nope. Not unless you want to. Some women love a fierce heel to elevate the look (literally). Others say no thanks and go barefoot, sock-footed, or even fully nude with nothing but confidence. All are welcome, all are stunning. No stilettos required. NOTE: Daphne has the most amazing shoe collection in the studio.

🤷‍♀️ “What if I don’t know how to pose?”

Perfect. Because that’s Daphne’s job, not yours. She will pose you down to your fingertips—literally. We guide you the whole way with encouragement, direction, and a little Beyoncé energy. No modeling experience required. Just show up.

👗 “Can I wear something besides lingerie?”

Absolutely. Boudoir is about you, not lace and garters. Bring your favorite sweater, a band tee, your partner’s button-down, a flowy robe, or nothing at all. We’ve even photographed women in overalls, cowboy boots, and full glam gowns. If it makes you feel powerful—we say bring it.

🙈 “What if I’m nervous?”

That’s normal. In fact, 99% of our clients are nervous when they arrive—and almost all of them leave saying, “I can’t believe how fun that was.” The nerves melt away the moment you meet us. We laugh. We talk. We hype you up. It’s like hanging out with your favorite girlfriends who just happen to be amazing at taking your picture.

💄 “Will you help me with makeup and hair?”

Yes! We have a glam squad just for you. You’ll sit back, sip something delicious, and get pampered while we create the perfect look for your shoot. All included.

🧼 “Do I have to shave everything?”

Nope. You show up as you. Whether you’re waxed, natural, or somewhere in between—we’re here to celebrate your beauty, not nitpick your grooming habits. The only requirement? Show up.

📸 “Will I get to see my photos?”

Oh yes. On shoot day, you’ll get a sneak peek behind the camera, and once your session is done, Daphne will show you your gorgeous portraits. No waiting weeks wondering if it “worked.” (Spoiler alert: It did. You nailed it.)

Final Thoughts: No Dumb Questions Here

At Hello Boudoir, we’ve got answers, encouragement, and the hype squad energy you need to rock your session. No question is too small, too weird, or too personal. Ask away.

This is your moment. Let’s make it magic.

Ready to book or still got questions? We’re here when you’re ready.

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Daphne Ellenburg is the creative force behind Hello Boudoir, a luxury studio nestled inside Ellenburg Photography in Saraland, Alabama. Since 2007, she’s welcomed women from across the country into her world of elegance, confidence, and transformation. With a refined eye for beauty and a heart for storytelling, Daphne curates every session to celebrate your most radiant self. Step into Hello Boudoir and discover a space where glamour meets empowerment—every detail is designed to unveil your most powerful, radiant self.

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